Leather and Lace

Ever since this song came out it resonated with me, long before I knew what it was to be kinky. Once I discovered my kinky side this song was like an ahh ha moment. I’ve always had a love of anything leather and lacy things mmmmm Now my love of leather and lace is found… Read More »

Hard Reboot #BDSM

It has been full of insanity around here since Thanksgiving. I had hoped after Turkey had come and passed that things would be a bit more manageable. Even putting a plan together moving forward didn’t help as life had other ideas. My job has become the bane of my existence.  We had one person retire… Read More »

Happy Thanksgiving

Wishing all who celebrate a very Happy Thanksgiving. On this day I leave you with this song which was a tradition when growing up. Enjoy the original 1967 version of Arlo Guthrie singing Alice’s Restaurant.  

Aligning Limits #BDSM

TDP #31 “You do not have to do The Thing. You don’t. Someone can want it, desire it, even expect it in their relationships. But there is choice. And just as they have the choice to expect, you have the choice to deny. They may want it, desire it, expect it. But they cannot demand… Read More »

Breaking My Silence

It has been a while since I have written, either here on social media or even on Tumblr. The last post I made on Tumblr was several weeks ago and I stated I would be taking a short hiatus. As many of you may know from following Kayla, my sister passed away Aug 2. She… Read More »