By | January 25, 2013

When a submissive gives their gift to a Dom it is a most special thing
Dom’s will push their subs to limits and past boundaries
They will deal out punishments as they see fit or as needed.

Dom’s will act in a stern manner and often with just a look the submissive will obey.

There is also another side to all that.
When the submissive gives that gift to their Dom
along with it comes all their hopes, all their fears and uncertainties, along with their dreams.
The Dom is given these things in trust, a trust that he will not use them against the sub or to harm them.

The Dom should use these  to help build their hopes, to help alleviate their fears,
to lend a steady hand when those uncertainties arise,
and guide them to achieving their dreams.

The Dom is their protector of all that they are.
The sub knowing that if they begin to fall he will be there to catch them.


23 thoughts on “Protector

      1. Kayla Lords

        And the reality is that it can still end…knowing what I now know, I’m also very aware of how shattered it can make someone feel…

      1. foxy

        You are most welcome Southern Sir. Thank you for writing that.

        Yes I am learning fast, if a bit slowly and get it wrong a lot.

        1. SouthernSir

          There is nothing bad about getting it wrong at times, as long as you use it as a leaning experience and grow from it.

  1. Wordwytch

    There is a give and take that is far more subtle than many people would understand. A sub may submit and ask for what they need. A Dom must decipher between the wants and actual needs of the sub. It is a dance. A tango or a waltz. And with all dances, at some point, the music stops. It is the point of choice by either party though whether to continue the dance.

    For some, the growth has occurred and the dance is over. For others there is too much expected by one party and the dance will end. Beauty comes in balance.

    Beautiful post Southern Sir.

    1. SouthernSir

      Very well said WW, it is a dance indeed, sometimes most pleasant, other times a whirlwind and at it’s worst chaotic.
      Even though one dance may end, there is always a new song to be played.

  2. noroomfordoubt

    Beautifully spoken by an honorable Dom who will do everything in his power to protect and nurture his caring and loving Submissive’s gift given to him freely and without conditions. Her vulnerability needs to be protected and it is like the beginning of a painter’s canvas waiting for his words and actions to paint the most beautiful picture and dance two people could ever create.


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