Open Mind

By | August 6, 2013

Keeping an open mind, what an important thing to do.
I have always thought a closed mind is a stagnant mind.
A good part of what this lifestyle is about pertains to growth.
Not just of the sub but of the Dominant as well.

Just as in any relationship one learns from the other.
For any relationship to grow and flourish there has to be growth on both sides.
A Dom cannot expect to push a sub to grow and reach beyond personal boundaries without doing so himself.
It is an evolution of the bond.

While ultimately the decision lays in the hands of the Dom
it is always a good idea to talk to your sub about things and get their opinion.
Take that into consideration and make your decision.
Listening to their thoughts can give you a different perspective.

On that same vein, I am going to say that I do not know everything there is to know about every kink.
Yes, that is correct, I don’t
There is a lot of different kink out there

When I first started talking to my girl and we were getting to know one another along with discovering our kinks
there were some things I didn’t know about and others she didn’t as well as ones neither one os us knew anything about.

She has fantastic researching and organizing abilities.
I would task her to research a particular subject, write up what she found and then send me her results.
Once that was done her and I would discuss what she had found, hence both of us learned.

There is learning and growing potential in every encounter it is whether you decide to make the most of it.