I Got it Wrong #BDSM

In a big way I got it wrong So this past weekend was a milestone for us. It has been several weeks since I have embarked upon my new life and slowly but surely I'm settling in. My new routine is working itself out; I'm getting more comfortable in the kitchen and trying some new recipes even. As … Continue reading

Scent #SinfulSunday

Yesterday I got to go to the local woodworking store and pick something out that I really wanted for Fathers Day. It was nice as I had been there a couple days prior and had seen a tool that would really be nice to add to my arsenal of turning tools. I already knew where it was in the store and … Continue reading

Do You Appreciate? #BDSM

I had a very interesting chat with someone the other day about whether I have rules and protocols that babygirl must follow. To which I replied why yes I do. This led to another question as to whether I appreciate the tasks she does for me. I didn't even hesitate in the least little bit and I … Continue reading

Aligning Limits #BDSM

TDP #31 “You do not have to do The Thing. You don’t. Someone can want it, desire it, even expect it in their relationships. But there is choice. And just as they have the choice to expect, you have the choice to deny. They may want it, desire it, expect it. But they cannot demand it from … Continue reading

Get in her Mind #BDSM

We have a ritual at night, it occurs each and every might at bedtime. Before babygirl (Kayla) can come to bed she must kneel by the bed and ask my permission to come to bed. Before I grant her permission it has become a standing occurrence that I stand over her. She will wiggle that beautiful … Continue reading