She got my Spanking

This past week was my birthday, so as is the tradition in our house Kayla got my spanking. I had been wondering if it was going to happen this year but the past week not only brought my celebration but also saw her pain free for the first time in a while. It was really nice to let out my sadist … Continue reading

Going in Circles

Some days it seems like you are just going in circles other times you just have to leave your mark. While kinky fuckery and especially impact has been almost non-existent of late last night I did get a little bit in with a new paddle. Even though I had to take it easy it was nice to hear her … Continue reading

Hello, I’m a Sadist

Hello and welcome, pleased to meet you I'm your local neighborhood sadist. Sounds scary doesn't it, c'mon say it with me "sadist" Kinda rolls off the tongue in a delectably evil way doesn't it. Of late I've been spending some time on Twitter, as busy as my life is at the moment the fast pace … Continue reading

Aligning Limits #BDSM

TDP #31 “You do not have to do The Thing. You don’t. Someone can want it, desire it, even expect it in their relationships. But there is choice. And just as they have the choice to expect, you have the choice to deny. They may want it, desire it, expect it. But they cannot demand it from … Continue reading

Get in her Mind #BDSM

We have a ritual at night, it occurs each and every might at bedtime. Before babygirl (Kayla) can come to bed she must kneel by the bed and ask my permission to come to bed. Before I grant her permission it has become a standing occurrence that I stand over her. She will wiggle that beautiful … Continue reading