10 Golden Rules for BDSM Part I
The evening after I wrote my post about negotiating I came across these on Tumblr and thought it would be good to share them in my absence.
Category Archives: Dom
Sirens Call
I hear her call Whispered on the wind She calls my name so sweetly A melody meant just for me Awake or asleep Her call beckons me I hear her call Even in my dreams I cannot escape her. Her soft silky tendrils wrap around me Holding me warm and soft Her lips beckon me… Read More »
Negotiations
So you’ve met a Dom or you’ve met a sub and you are all ready to jump into a D/s relationship. What about the negotiations? Yes, the negotiations. Unlike a typical vanilla relationship there is so much more to consider in the BDSM lifestyle. Are you a sub or a slave? Are you a Dom… Read More »
Thoughts on submission; Intellect, and Creativity
I had thought I wouldn’t be able to write for a while but as luck would have it I was able to get my hands on a laptop and thanks to Starbucks and their wifi away I go. “Men,” she said “are only interested in women’s bodies.” “I have never known a man who was… Read More »
Fight the Good Fight
There comes a point in life when you find something worth fighting for. All throughout life one may find things that they go to bat for, some of these things are not meant to be. The fight may be in vain. Most times even though you try to fight the good fight deep down within… Read More »
Soft Touch
Do a search on the Internet for BDSM, Dominance, submission, bondage, etc and you will turn up a plethora of images of a scowling Dom and a submissive being tortured in the most cruelest of ways. Rope work ties so tight it makes you wonder how they can stand it even for a few moments.Even… Read More »
An email
A number of years ago, just about 3 to be exact I was a regular on a writing site. It was an interesting place as it was an amalgamation of different people from around the world, different walks of life, different beliefs, and even different fetishes. The site allowed for many various interactions, through chat,… Read More »
Walls
Everyone has walls to some degree; vanilla, submissive, or even Dominant they are there. What varies is the measure of how high and how thick they can be. I even have a fairly good understanding of why submissives build walls…they have to some degree been hurt in ways that most could never begin to understand.… Read More »
Part of the whole
Kitchen Duty
Neither one of them had been to that restaurant before and it turned out to be a pleasant surprise.They shared a plate of raw oysters, and thankfully decided to share a seafood platter and they were glad they did as it was a lot of food. After they ate Shane and Bella strolled along the… Read More »