Everyone has walls to some degree; vanilla, submissive, or even Dominant they are there. What varies is the measure of how high and how thick they can be. I even have a fairly good understanding of why submissives build walls…they have to some degree been hurt in ways that most could never begin to understand.… Read More »
Last night I had to make a trip to an adult novelty shop shop to pick up a few things. It was great to go through a peruse the isles and see things both old and new on the shelves and racks. I filled my basket with the items I was looking for and also… Read More »
It has been a little bit.I’ve been under the weather to say the least. Three trips to the doctors, and now a second round of anti-biotics and I am finally on my way back to normal. Be warned, this is dark, born of sickness or fever…either way you have been warned! Awareness slowly began to… Read More »
I was talking to a friend the other day and the topic of “safe words” came up and I was asked if I use one The answer is a resounding YES! Safe, Sane, and Consensual…always! Having a safe word in place is important. Never and I mean never play without having a safe word in… Read More »
When a submissive gives their gift to a Dom it is a most special thing Dom’s will push their subs to limits and past boundaries They will deal out punishments as they see fit or as needed. Dom’s will act in a stern manner and often with just a look the submissive will obey. There… Read More »
A flight of fantasy from todays meeting, needed something to get through it. He gathered up his necessary items for the meeting; legal pad, pen, meeting itinerary; and of course his coffee cup. Deep down he knew these meetings were needed but why did they have to be so boring. Listening to the endless droning… Read More »
Sometimes I think there is a misconception of people who do not understand what this world is about. They think Dom or Master and the first thing that comes to mind is someone wielding a paddle and/or a whip with an evil gleam in their eye hell bent on letting loose upon someone. While a… Read More »
When a submissive gives the gift of herself it is a precious thing.It is given through trust and respect. A Dom should not take that gift lightly. It should be accepted with reverence It is then up to him to embrace that gift and protect it with all of his being. To nurture the gift… Read More »