When Kayla first proposed I go to Eroticon with her I agreed after seeing what a good time she had. I will admit that a certain part of me felt a bit like an interloper in doing so. Kayla is the writer, the words spill from her like water over a waterfall. Myself? Well writing… Read More »
Honesty, so much is said about honesty in the BDSM lifestyle. Be honest with your sub, earn their trust, keep nothing from them it all stands true. Yet almost as important be honest with yourself.Lets be honest with one another what we do is edgy, if something goes wrong someone could be seriously hurt. Don’t… Read More »
Keeping an open mind, what an important thing to do. I have always thought a closed mind is a stagnant mind. A good part of what this lifestyle is about pertains to growth. Not just of the sub but of the Dominant as well. Just as in any relationship one learns from the other. For… Read More »
Sometimes I think there is a misconception of people who do not understand what this world is about. They think Dom or Master and the first thing that comes to mind is someone wielding a paddle and/or a whip with an evil gleam in their eye hell bent on letting loose upon someone. While a… Read More »