Hard Reboot #BDSM

It has been full of insanity around here since Thanksgiving. I had hoped after Turkey had come and passed that things would be a bit more manageable. Even putting a plan together moving forward didn’t help as life had other ideas. My job has become the bane of my existence.  We had one person retire… Read More »

Happy Thanksgiving

Wishing all who celebrate a very Happy Thanksgiving. On this day I leave you with this song which was a tradition when growing up. Enjoy the original 1967 version of Arlo Guthrie singing Alice’s Restaurant.  

Aligning Limits #BDSM

TDP #31 “You do not have to do The Thing. You don’t. Someone can want it, desire it, even expect it in their relationships. But there is choice. And just as they have the choice to expect, you have the choice to deny. They may want it, desire it, expect it. But they cannot demand… Read More »

Breaking My Silence

It has been a while since I have written, either here on social media or even on Tumblr. The last post I made on Tumblr was several weeks ago and I stated I would be taking a short hiatus. As many of you may know from following Kayla, my sister passed away Aug 2. She… Read More »

The New Normal #CancerSucks

Nothing sexy or hot to see here today, not even some wise words of wisdom that talk about the wonders of living a D/s lifestyle with a lovely submissive. If you want that you can either go here Kayla Lords or here Whispers in the Dark. Sorry but this is going to be a bit… Read More »