In a big way I got it wrong So this past weekend was a milestone for us. It has been several weeks since I have embarked upon my new life and slowly but surely I’m settling in. My new routine is working itself out; I’m getting more comfortable in the kitchen and trying some new… Read More »
I had a very interesting chat with someone the other day about whether I have rules and protocols that babygirl must follow. To which I replied why yes I do. This led to another question as to whether I appreciate the tasks she does for me. I didn’t even hesitate in the least little bit… Read More »
Well as promised here are my test results, really there is nothing here that didn’t surprise me except for one thing of which I am still scratching my head over. Maybe that is something that needs more exploring..not sure but I will be annotating each section as you read down. I will be updating how… Read More »
Kayla is a babygirl , I know shocking isn’t it. She has many attributes of a babygirl, she squeals when she is happy, she’s been known to stamp her foot a time or two in disapproval, and she can pout right up there with the best of them. Someone wrote a post recently about pouting… Read More »
This past weekend was a flurry of activity, Saturday was full of running errands and taking care of things that I just am unable to do during the work week. One thing that was also on the plate was that Kayla needed some time to sit alone and write. I’m taking some time off the… Read More »
It has taken a little bit in this madness I call my life but I have slowly been finding my balance. Between work, home, Kayla, the boys, and my sister it hasn’t been easy but I am finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and it isn’t a train. As in any… Read More »
One thing that I see as very important in our relationship is communication. Not just in regards to our BDSM and D/s aspect of our relationship but all of it as a whole. Kayla and I are on the same page about many things, so many things at times it can be scary. Her and… Read More »
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about many things. Today a memory came flooding back into my head on my ride home from work. Even for a Monday it was a bear at work, I was exhausted as I didn’t sleep well last night. Dreams, not being able to get comfortable, the typical Sunday night… Read More »
As Dominants we do many things that our subs allow us to do, as masochists to our sadism we embark on a journey of both mind and body. In the D/s aspect we again use our power to lead and guide as best we can, growing ourselves and learning as much as a sub does.… Read More »
This past weekend was one of the local munches I attend. Due to Holidays and traveling I had not been to this particular one in a while and it was nice to catch up with everyone. Now the two munches I attend are both held in public restaurants and there is no fetish gear worn,… Read More »